About Ben

The Basics

I like to hang out in laundromats. (Not really.)

Hello, my name is Ben. I’m in my 30s.

I was born in the United States of America and lived there mostly until 2006. That’s when I moved to Australia.

In 2010, I became a permanent resident of Australia and then in 2012, I became an Australian citizen. I am a dual citizen.

I’m currently in a relationship with an Indian guy who I call J or Jay here. We’ve been together for a few years already.

Our Wedding:

I don’t think that it’s nice to tell you everything here, so discover who I am a little more by reading my weblog.

The Weblog

My weblog doesn’t have just one topic, but it’s a mish-mash of things I think about. You might read something about what a shit week I’ve had one day, and the next day I’ll post about the kinds of foods I want to cook. I talk a bit about things that affect the gay community and politics sometimes, but try to stay away from stuff like that since it stresses me quite a bit.

My opinions aren’t always the most popular ones and sometimes, I don’t actually do the research I should to back up a position that I have–I base what I write on my feelings at the time. So, just don’t get hateful over anything that I write.

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In my spare time, I play games. Occasionally, I make them.

A few games that I play regularly are:

You may be able to watch me play games on my YouTube page.

Want to Know More?

If you’d like to send me a message, go here.