idioPod 36: Let's Be Friends
About one day after I did #35, I made #36. One of the worst things your partner can say is the "Let's Be Friends" speech which I did get. I seriously don't think there's any meaning behind it. But of course I have a non-caring attitude towards it. Since I made this though, it seems like he forgot he said it.
Also, I talk about these things:
- Ongoing visa issues and a few travel plan changes (by the way, did you read my last weblog entry?)
- The "Let's Be Friends" speech (which I will go into more detail in another podcast)
- How ugly Clay Aiken is (and also the guy from the naked lady show, whatever it's called... Carson Kressley. I think he would make a really good gay Joker.)
- My hatred of Apple-made mice
- Leaving messages on Skype and my local US number
- Answering questions such as:
- When did I realize I was gay?
- Do I hate myself sometimes?
- Do I regret I was born?
- If I had to choose between telling the truth and hurting a friend OR lying and making them happy, what would I do?
- Why do people always want to know what people think of them?
- What is easier: being friends for many years or being life partners for many years? (I know you have the answer to this already, eh?)
29 min and weighs in at 13.3 MB. Quite longer and bigger than I want. (Oooooh yes)
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Hi Ben,
Whatever happens between you and Gilbert, just realize that you're both young and have full lives ahead of you. It's rare to meet someone at 20 and still be with them years later, so if you do part ways, don't feel bad. Enjoy the memories and move on.
Take care!
Mark
Hi there Mark. Thanks for the comment! I think it's a false alarm like always. I've been cooking him some pretty damn good food, so now I know the secret on how to keep a man. ;) Heh heh!
That's good to hear!
You're so right: the way to your Asian partner's heart is through his tummy. Mr. X loves it when I cook for him. It's a way of showing love in his culture, I think.
Speaking of food, I found Asian hair in the margarine.
I have actually been on a cooking kick lately. I made some cookies that I wasn't proud of but he ended up eating about 30 of them out of 3 dozen. I'm out of M&Ms now. I ate about 2 1/2 bags of them. I need to chill out with the chocolate.
But yeah, we're doing OK - he's been irritating me quite a bit and I'm not sure why. :) But I like to irritate him so I'm going to post a video of that soon, I think.